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How To Stop Worrying And Trust The Universe: 9 Essential Tips

Katelyn
How to stop worrying and trust the universe

Trusting the universe brings together spirituality, personal development, and emotional well-being. At its essence, trusting the universe means having faith that there is a greater plan at work in your life, even if you can’t see or understand it. It involves letting go of the need to control every aspect of your life and instead, embracing the flow of events with an open heart and mind. Fear and worry often stop us from trusting the universe. Pressures of life; responsibilities, challenges and uncertainty of the future can cause stress and worry. The ability to let go of these concerns and trust the universe provides a profound sense of peace, calm and liberation.

This blog will explore 9 effective tips for you to learn how to stop worrying and trust the universe. Here’s how you can start this transformative journey:

The Importance of Trusting the Universe

‘Trust the Universe’ sounds like a spiritual cliché, but it can be a powerful mindset and a way of finding peace and calming worry. I used to think this was an annoying saying, but now that I have learned to understand what this phrase means, I have found comfort in it. Now, when things feel out of my control, I use this phrase to calm my worries and to hold hope that things are happening for me, not to me.

This kind of trust doesn’t mean that we just have to accept everything that comes our way. It doesn’t mean taking a passive approach to life; in fact, quite the opposite. It means that we work towards making things happen and reaching our goals, but when things don’t go right or there are stressful situations outside of our control, we can have faith, take it as a lesson, and maintain calm minds while feeling supported and guided. Trusting that there is a bigger picture to our lives and meaning for everything that happens can help build resilience and get you through the hard times.

Trusting Yourself as Part of Trusting the Universe

It can also help to learn to trust your talents, abilities, and strengths. I have learned to trust that I have been given the gifts I’ve been given for a reason. That my abilities and strengths are all for a bigger purpose. For example, I have a strong sense of empathy and can feel other people’s pain and distress. At times I have struggled with this; it can be draining and difficult, but it’s also the gift that allows me to help people. It’s the gift that made me become a social worker, and work as a counsellor and coach.

Trusting the universe can be difficult at first but is a very powerful way to improve our well-being and live our true purpose.

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9 Essential Tips to Learn How to Stop Worrying and Trust The Universe

1. Acknowledge and Understand Your Fears

This is an important first step on how to stop worrying and trust the universe. If we don’t take time to understand what we are afraid of or try to suppress or deny our fears we are more likely to amplify them. A lot of the time when we stop to reflect on our fears they are typically projections of a future that may never happen. Give yourself some time to reflect on these, meditate on them, and write them down. By understanding and acknowledging these fears, where they come from and the impact they are having, we take their power away and demystify them. Doing this can make it easier to release the fear and trust the universe’s guidance.

2. Cultivate a Meditation Practice

Meditation is a powerful tool for calming your mind, centring your thoughts and connecting to your higher self. As I mentioned in the last tip; a lot of the fear we experience is about future events that are yet to happen. Meditation provides a way to focus on the here and now, take time out from the worry, find inner peace and let go of fears and anxieties.

Set aside time each day. Even 5 minutes of focused breathing can make a significant difference. With increased practice, you can experiment with different types of meditations and learn to connect to your higher self and universal messaging to increase trust in your path.

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3. Learn to Let Go of Control

Trying to control all aspects of our lives can increase our fear of the unknown. In truth, we can’t control a lot of what happens in our lives. Learning to let go of control and trusting that the universe has a greater plan for you, can help you see the possibilities and opportunities for growth and potential.

To let go of control reflect on situations in your life and seriously ask yourself what areas you have; control, influence or no control. This will help you determine where to put your focus and energy and what aspects to let go of and trust the universe. If you have difficulty with control perhaps consider seeking support to understand and work on your need for control.

4. Embrace a Gratitude Practice

Gratitude is a powerful way to recognize abundance and positivity in our lives which helps to foster a sense of contentment. This practice can transform your mindset and make it easier to trust that the universe is providing for you in meaningful ways.

Try a gratitude journal. Start practising writing down 3 things a day that you are grateful for. Another great way to practice gratitude is to do it with a friend or loved one. Try sharing what you are grateful for with them each day. Also try to remind yourself regularly to be grateful to the universe for having your back and providing the amazing opportunities you have in your life.

Check out more about self-gratitude.

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5. Establish a Spiritual Routine

Having a spiritual routine can help to connect to higher energies and reinforce your trust in the universe’s plan. Having a routine of any sort can help to build trust in yourself. By showing yourself you can regularly repeat behaviours that have a positive effect on your life, you prove to yourself that you can be consistent and trust your own word. Adding a spiritual component to this routine can help you trust yourself and the universe.

The spiritual component is up to you entirely. It can be meditation, reading spiritual texts, choosing a crystal to carry with you or using a divination tool such as tarot. Your spiritual routine should be completely individual. It can be anything that makes you feel joy, grounded and connected to the universe.

6. Accept and Embrace Uncertainty

Life is inevitably unpredictable. Therefore, an important part of how to stop worrying and trust the universe is to learn to embrace uncertainty. Accepting uncertainty is an important part of releasing fear and trusting in infinite possibilities. Accepting and embracing uncertainty allows us to flow with life rather than resisting it.

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7. Understand That Not Getting What You Want Can Be a Blessing

Sometimes we want things in life that aren’t necessarily for us and the path planned for us. It can be disappointing when we want a particular job, for example, only to be turned down. However, months later we find the job of our dreams or find out that the company went bankrupt. ‘A blessing in disguise’.

Trusting in the universe’s wisdom and timing helps in making these setbacks easier to bare. Reflect on past experiences. Have there been times when not getting what you wanted led to a better outcome? How can you apply this thinking in the future when you face disappointments or setbacks? Try to keep your mind on the bigger picture and remind yourself that there is purpose behind these things.

8. Learn to Look for Synchronicities

I don’t know if you have noticed synchronicities in your life before but I find great comfort in seeing them. Often it’s in numbers, I regularly see repeating numbers 444 or 555 or even patterns like 911 or 411. These don’t only show on the clock but on license plates, game scores, or phone numbers.

Noticing synchronicities or meaningful coincidences, as Jung called them1, is a way of the universe communicating with you. It can be a message to reinforce your thought or belief or it could be guidance or encouragement with a decision. Learning to see and understand these messages can help to develop trust in the universe’s path. Try keeping a journal to note these synchronicities and reflect on the meaning. You can look up others’ meanings or decide on a meaning for yourself. Be aware of your thoughts and feelings at the time of seeing the synchronicity as it may just be encouragement or a warning.

9. Develop Your Intuition

Lastly, developing your intuition is an important way to learn to trust in the universe. Having a strong sense of your intuition strengthens your inner guidance system, trust your instincts and listen to the universe’s subtle messages. This is another great way to trust yourself as well as the universe in making decisions as it connects you with your higher self. As your intuition develops you will learn to trust your instincts and start to make decisions for your highest self and your greatest good.

Practice quieting your mind and tuning into your inner wisdom. Try to listen to your gut, especially when making decisions. Listen for the ‘hell yes’ and the ‘hell no’ in your body. Another great way to practice is to try to predict objects, for example, use cards; draw one from the deck but before looking at it leave it face down and try to guess which it is. Focus on it, try to visualise it and trust what comes to mind or what you feel.

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How to Stop Worrying and Trust the Universe: A Personal Journey

Trusting the universe is not about adopting a specific set of beliefs or rituals but about finding what resonates with you personally. It’s about developing a relationship with the universe that feels authentic and meaningful. For some, this might involve daily meditation and journaling; for others, it could be spending time in nature or engaging in creative activities. The key is to find practices that help you feel connected and supported.

Final Thoughts

Whilst trusting the universe might sound like a cliched way to manage stress. However, it can be a beneficial way to build resilience, feel a sense of peace in difficult times and minimise fear and worry. It needs to be a practice that feels right to you, so use all the tips or the ones that work for you, to develop the trust you need.

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Resources

1Jung, C. G. (1952). “Synchronicity: An Acausal Connecting Principle.” In Collected Works vol. 8. Princeton, NJ: Princeton University Press.

Koenig, H. G., McCullough, M. E., & Larson, D. B. (2001). The Role of Spirituality in Coping with Stress. International Journal of Psychology and Psychological Therapy

Synchronicity: Enhance Well-Being via Meaningful Coincidences | Psychology Today

What It Means To Trust The Universe + Why You Should | mindbodygreen

Ceremonial Cacao

The Powerful Benefits Of Ceremonial Cacao to Empower Your Meditations

Katelyn

+ Including 10% off code when you order through Australian Ceremonial Cacao!

Ceremonial Cacao

Dive into the benefits of ceremonial cacao and discover how this ancient superfood can transform your meditation practice into a deeply enriching spiritual journey.

Hello Beautiful Soul, I’m excited to introduce you to ceremonial cacao.

In pursuing wellness and spiritual depth, the ancient practice of incorporating ceremonial cacao into meditation has resurfaced as a transformative ritual. This guide explores the profound benefits of ceremonial cacao, differentiating it from everyday cocoa and cacao, tracing its rich history, and detailing how it enhances meditation practices. Plus, enjoy an exclusive 10% off Australian Ceremonial Cacao.

I was first introduced to ceremonial cacao in Bali in 2020 (one week before the pandemic really took hold, phew). I was there on a Goddess retreat and fell in love with this special plant after the first cup. We did a ritual as part of our evening meditation and it was a beautiful and deep experience. Despite the caffeine, I also had the best sleep ever straight after. I have been using ceremonial cacao ever since to deepen my meditations and rituals, along with the health benefits.

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Cocoa vs Cacao vs Ceremonial Cacao: What is the difference?

I’m sure we have all heard of and likely tasted cocoa in the form of chocolate, right? So what are cacao and ceremonial cacao? Well, the difference between all three is the processing. They all come from the same tree but the way it’s made makes a significant difference.

Cocoa – Goes through processing before it gets to us. It gets roasted, ground, tempered, conched and refined sugar and additives are added. Then it gets to us.

Cacao – is the raw and pure form. It’s either lightly sun-dried or fermented with minimal heat. There is some heat to make it safe to consume but as little as possible. So it has all the good stuff without the additives.

Ceremonial Cacao – is the same as cacao, however, due to the ceremonial use (and if you buy the right stuff) it is respected at every step of the way. It is shown love and reverence at each stage of processing, is sustainably farmed and has a single origin.

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Sweet History of Ceremonial Cacao

It’s important to acknowledge the cultural heritage of Cacao if you want to use it in your meditation practice and want to get the best from it.

Cacao was used by Amazonian and Mesoamerican cultures for many ceremonial rites and rituals. These cultures had a deep awareness and connection to the gifts, wisdom and medicine of the earth. The cacao bean was often referred to as a gift from the gods or the food of the gods, as it was believed to have mystical properties that allowed users to commune with higher realms. Although it is used in different ways nowadays, it continues to be used in spiritual rituals to gain spiritual insight and connect with ancestors, spirits, universe etc.

Ceremonial Cacao bean

This photo demonstrates what the cacao bean looks like when it is freshly opened.

The cacao pod itself had significance to these ancient cultures. It was said, the cacao bean inside was the sweetness of life. The hard casing outside represented layers of experiences and challenges. This beautiful representation of life reflects that we must overcome challenges to get to the sweet centre of life.

The Zen Connection: Benefits of Ceremonial Cacao on Meditation

Meditation Tip: the goal isn’t to empty your mind but to observe your thoughts and feelings without judgment, gently guiding your focus back to a point of reference, like your breath or a mantra.

We have all heard of the benefits of meditation like stress reduction, improved mood, increased self-awareness and better sleep. However, it is not that easy for everyone to practice meditation.

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Ceremonial cacao is a potent facilitator for meditation. It is said to assist:

Heart Opening

Ceremonial Cacao is referred to as the ‘heart opener’ as it increases blood flow and oxygenation of the brain. This enhances connection and empathy, leading to a deeper and more heartfelt meditation.

Improved Mood

The Cacao bean contains compounds that elevate mood and decrease stress, creating a more positive and receptive state for meditation.

Increased Focus

As Cacao is a mild stimulant it can help to create a focus and attentiveness that can help maintain meditation.

Mindfulness

The preparation ritual itself can be a mindful practice that helps prepare for deeper meditation. Using your senses and setting intention during the preparation starts the zen before sitting down to start.

Benefits of Ceremonial Cacao

The reason this amazing plant can do all this is because of something called, Theobromine. Theobromine is a natural stimulant that works similarly to caffeine, however, it has longer-lasting effects and is more gentle (a massive plus to those of you who get the jitters on caffeine). Theobromine is also known to improve mood, enhance blood flow and even has diuretic and heart-stimulant functions. Due to its stimulating effects and mood-boosting properties, it helps to make ceremonial cacao the perfect assistant to help you deepen your meditations.

Sanctifying Your Sanctuary: Preparing Yourself and Your Space

Creating a sacred space to take full advantage of this beautiful ritual is a must in my eyes.

  • Cleansing yourself and your space with sage, palo santo or incense can help to set the mood.
  • Setting intentions is an important step to have a clear idea in your mind of what you are hoping to get from the experience and what you want to work through or reflect on with the ritual and meditation.
  • Set up your environment to be calm and comfortable.
  • Ensure you have everything you might need for minimal interruptions – have water, a journal, a pen, and even extra paper to scribble on or draw on if you don’t want to do that in your journal.
  • Put away the technology! if you are using a guided meditation consider downloading it and putting your phone on airplane mode.
  • Prepare yourself – do whatever you need to get in the right mindset. I often spend some time in nature and have a shower first if I really want a deep meditation.
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Brewing Bliss: How to Prepare Ceremonial Cacao

Preparing ceremonial cacao is an art. Start with high-quality Cacao, gently heat with water, milk or a non-dairy alternative, and whisk to a smooth, frothy consistency. Add spices or sweeteners as guided by your intuition and the traditions you resonate with. You can also just have it with nothing. I often drink just the cacao in hot water.

Part of the ritual for me is also to use the same mug that is just for cacao. You don’t need to do this but I enjoy it and makes it feel more special.

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Selecting Your Spirit Cacao: A Guide to Choosing the Right Bean

Choosing the right ceremonial cacao is very important. Look for ethically sourced, pure cacao from reputable suppliers. I use Australian Ceremonial Cacao – they use high quality and organic Peruvian strain called Criollo. They ethically source it by engaging in a sustainable and fair trade program to benefit the farmers and local community. This is so important to recognise the community and farmers from where this natural blessing is being shared.

Also if you decide to purchase from Australian Ceremonial Cacao please use my code MSL24 for 10% off your purchase. They also have a wide range of other products including handmade mugs, ceremony kits for kids and couples and cacao ceremony journals.

My favourite thing, as well as the cacao of course, is the Lucuma, a Peruvian fruit with a lovely sweet taste and a ton of health benefits.

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Integrating the Cacao in Meditation

The ritual itself is up to you! I like to take deep breaths and set my intentions whilst I stir in the cacao then I sit in my meditation space and sip it while I think about what I want to achieve or what I want to know from the experience, manifest or write down goals. Then once I have finished I put everything down and put on my guided meditation I have selected to go with my intention. I use Insight Timer as it is free and has thousands of beautiful meditations to choose from.

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Post-Ceremony Glow: Integrating Insights and Emotions

After you have completed the meditation and your cacao, it’s important to not rush back into your busy schedule. Give yourself time and listen to what your body needs.

I love to spend time journaling either in my meditation space or outside in nature. Just let whatever needs to, come out on the page.

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Final Thoughts

As we wrap up this exploration into the transformative world of ceremonial cacao and its harmonious blend with meditation, I hope you feel inspired to weave this ancient ritual into your spiritual practice. Ceremonial cacao isn’t just a beverage; it’s key to deeper mindfulness, emotional clarity, and a heart-wide-open journey.

Embrace the Path Forward

I invite you to step into this beautiful practice, integrating ceremonial cacao into your meditation to enrich your spiritual journey. Whether you seek deeper introspection, emotional healing, or simply a moment of serenity, let ceremonial cacao be your guide.

To support your first steps, I’m delighted to offer a 10% discount on Australian Ceremonial Cacao with code MSL24. Embrace this opportunity to deepen your practice and connect more profoundly with yourself.

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May your path be graced with peace and insight,

Katelyn

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Resources

Ceremonial Cacao (australianceremonialcacao.com)https://www.australianceremonialcacao.com/?ref=a5hqf3go

What is Cacao Ceremony? (ceremonial-cacao.com)

The Benefits of Ceremonial Cacao – MBF AUS (madebyfressko.com)

Cacao Ceremony: Ultimate Guide to Awakening the Soul and Healing the Heart – Sacred Taste

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Katelyn

Katelyn brings a decade of expertise as a Mental Health Social Worker to her calling as a Spiritual Mindset Coach and Mind-Body Practitioner. Committed to guiding women on their journey of self-discovery, she empowers them to embrace spiritual growth and step into their best lives with authenticity and resilience.

Self-Gratitude

Self-Gratitude: Elevate Your Mind, Spirit and Life

Katelyn
Self-Gratitude

Hello Beautiful Souls, I want to introduce you to the beautiful and healing practice of self-gratitude. This is an important practice that has many holistic benefits that help you to be your best self.

It’s like giving yourself a giant, warm hug. It’s celebrating everything that makes you unique, worthy and special.

In this article, we will look at what self-gratitude is and why it’s important, as well as, barriers that can create resistance. We will look at the best ways to practice this beautiful and healing ritual.

Table of Contents:
– What is Self-Gratitude?
– Barriers and Challenges to Self-Gratitude
– How Does Self-Gratitude Improve Our Mind, Spirit and Life?
– Mind
– Spirit
– Life
– Ways to Practice Self-Gratitude
– Final Thoughts

What is Self-Gratitude?

Self-gratitude is the practice of expressing appreciation for and celebrating parts of yourself. It helps you see and appreciate all of the great things about yourself. Your personality, abilities, talents, knowledge, and physical attributes.

Have you ever caught yourself being critical about a mistake? or beating yourself up for something you have forgotten?

I bet the way you spoke to yourself is harsher then you would ever speak to your family or friends. Self-gratitude will shift your negative self-talk to be more positive and kinder.

I’m sure you’ve heard of the practice of gratitude by now and likely all its benefits. But self-gratitude is all the benefits of gratitude but directed back to yourself.

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Barriers and Challenges to Self-Gratitude

Unfortunately, practices like self-gratitude do not come naturally to us. This can be for several reasons. Some of the most common reasons include:

Perfectionism and Negative Self-Talk – Having harsh criticism and intolerance of personal mistakes can cause us to put unnecessary pressure on ourselves. This way of thinking can overshadow our achievements and best qualities.

Internalising Societal Pressures leading to guilt and shame – I’m sure we all have felt pressure before around the ways we ‘should’ act or milestones we ‘should’ achieve. But life doesn’t always work out that way. Sometimes we don’t get married, have children, or have the perfect career within the ‘appropriate’ timeframes…or at all. Internalising these pressures can lead to negative feelings of guilt and shame stopping us from truly appreciating the amazing person we are.

Fear of Selfishness – Often we get told that to provide ourselves care and love is to be selfish or self-centred. It’s not! This is actually the best thing you can do, not only for yourself but for your family, friends and society as a whole. Because if you love yourself you are more likely to be a better person and be better to others.

How Does Self-Gratitude Improve Our Mind, Spirit and Life?

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Self-Gratitude Impacts on the Mind

Improves Mental Health – Ongoing practice of self-gratitude can help reduce symptoms of anxiety, depression and stress. Shifting attention from negative thought patterns to focus on the positive aspects of yourself and your life can help to shift to a more optimistic outlook.

Improves Self-Acceptance and Self-Love – Self-gratitude helps you, not only, accept yourself for who you are but also love all aspects of yourself. This increases your confidence self-worth and overall happiness.

Fosters a Growth Mindset – Self-gratitude nurtures a growth mindset by acknowledging personal progress and learning from experiences. This outlook embraces challenges, values effort, and views failures as opportunities to learn, leading to personal and professional development.

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Self-Gratitude Impacts on the Spirit

Deepens Self-Connection – Self-gratitude encourages introspection and a deeper connection with your inner self. This introspective practice can lead to a more profound understanding of your values, desires, and purpose, aligning actions with true self-identity.

Cultivates Inner Peace: By appreciating your journey and embracing the present moment, self-gratitude fosters a sense of contentment and inner peace. It reduces the constant striving for external validation and allows for a more grounded and centred spirit.

Enhances Spiritual Growth – For many, gratitude is a spiritual practice. It opens the heart chakra, increases empathy, and connects them to something greater than themselves, whether that’s a community, nature, or a higher power. It can be a pathway to experiencing transcendence and interconnectedness.

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Self-Gratitude Impacts on the Life

Improves Relationships With Yourself and Others – Learning to love the true you can improve your relationship with yourself. As your self-acceptance and love improve, you are more inclined to treat your body with respect and compassion. This leads to healthier choices.

Your improved sense of self will likely rub off on others, improving positive relationships. But, an improved sense of self can also highlight where some people may be holding you back. With your increased love and respect for yourself, you will have an increased capacity to say no and cement those boundaries.

Builds Resilience to Manage Life’s Stressors – Acknowledging your strengths and achievements builds psychological resilience, enabling better coping with stress and adversity. It cultivates a mindset that views challenges as opportunities for growth rather than insurmountable obstacles, setting you up to manage the stressors that come your way.

Increases Life Satisfaction – Practicing self-gratitude shifts the focus from what’s missing to what’s abundant in your life, promoting a sense of satisfaction and joy. It encourages a celebration of the present and an appreciation for the unique path you are on, regardless of societal standards or expectations.

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Ways to Practice Self-Gratitude?

Embrace self-care

Take care of yourself! Focus on self-care activities that reflect self-gratitude, such as a relaxing bath, a favourite hobby, or a treat that makes you feel valued and cared for. You deserve it!

Redefine Success on your own terms

Put societal pressures and expectations aside and set your own goals. You determine what success is for you, not anyone else.

If there are days when getting up and showering is a success, then good on you for doing it and appreciate yourself. If getting married and having kids isn’t your life goal and you’d rather travel the world then that is your success story.

Affirmations and Positive Self-Talk

Being aware of your self-talk and taking directed action to improve this is one of the best ways to practice self-gratitude.

Repeat affirmations while you’re brushing your teeth, or getting ready for work.

Every time you catch yourself thinking something negative counter it with 2 positives.

Gratitude Journaling

Start a practice of writing one thing you love and appreciate about yourself every day. Try it for a month or even for a year. I challenge you to do it and not feel better about yourself.

My favourite part about this one is, by writing down the daily gratitudes, you can re-read these any time you need a pick me up.

See my other article on how to start journaling for tips.

Mel Robbin’s High Five Habit

Love Mel Robbins and her awesome evidence-backed self-help techniques. Mel has a book called The High Five Habit in which she recommends high-fiving yourself in the mirror every day giving yourself a boost of positive affirmation.

Therapy or Coaching

Consider working with a Coach, Counsellor or Psychologist to work through what might be holding you back from truly loving yourself.

Please feel free to book a 15 minute discovery call with me to see if I am the right fit to help you out! I’d love to work with you!

Final Thoughts

Self-Acceptance

Self-gratitude is more than self-care; it’s a transformative practice that reshapes how we view ourselves and our lives. It turns our unique paths into sources of strength and joy. By adopting simple acts of self-gratitude, we can foster a deeper connection with ourselves and lead a more fulfilling life.

Call to Action: Begin with one small act of self-gratitude today. Notice the positive changes and share your story with us. Need support? Book a discovery call with me today!

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Resources

High 5 Habit – Unlock the Power of Habit and Achieve Your Goals with Mel Robbins

What Is Self-Gratitude and How Can You Practice It? | Cake Blog (joincake.com)

How to start journaling

How To Start Journaling to Discover Your Best Self

Katelyn

Including 16 Journal Prompts to Start Your Journaling Journey!

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Hello Beautiful Souls!

Are you wondering how to start journaling and embark on a transformative journey? Through my time working as a Counsellor and in my own spiritual growth journey, I’ve seen first-hand how journaling can open doors to our deepest selves. I’m excited to help you discover the same for yourself. Let’s explore how this simple practice can unlock your path to personal growth and self-awareness.

The Power of Journaling in Self-Discovery

Journaling is more than just writing down your thoughts. It’s an intimate process that helps peel back the layers of your inner self. It’s your personal space to explore emotions, dreams, and aspirations. It can provide clarity on current issues, provide healing from traumas in your past or provide closure in times of grief or anger. Imagine having a conversation with your deepest self – that’s what journaling can be.

As the number of studies increased, it became clear that writing was a far more powerful tool for healing than anyone had ever imagined.

— James W. Pennebaker

6 Major Benefits of Journaling Practice

1. Healthy Outlet For Suppressed Emotion

There are many reasons we supress our emotions, from not feeling safe, to childhood programming that you’re not supposed to or not wanting to be a burden on someone. Not expressing our emotions can cause significant emotional consequences. Often it can lead to outbursts of anger or tears that can hurt others or happen at really inappropriate times. Journaling creates a safe, judgement free zone to express these emotions. Therefore, reducing the risks of damaging relationships, minimising mood swings and irritability.

2. Helps You Achieve Your Goals

Ever felt stuck in a rut or bored of life? Ever had a goal in mind but not sure how to achieve it? Often its a lack of clarity that can cause these feelings. Journaling allows you to lay out all the areas of your goal and break it down into steps you can take and explore the barriers that may be hiding below the surface.

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3. Improves Emotional Intelligence

Emotional intelligence is ‘the ability to manage both your own emotions and understand the emotions of people around you’ (Mental Health America). One of the key elements of Emotional Intelligence is Self-Awareness. Journaling helps us to increase our self-awareness by helping to break down our thoughts, feelings and behaviours and giving us an understanding of our automatic reactions and thoughts that often overlook.

4. Positive Impact on Physical Health

Did you know that journaling can be a secret weapon for your physical health? It’s true! When we write down our thoughts and feelings, it’s not just an emotional release; it can actually lead to physical benefits. This practice helps reduce stress, which means less stress hormone cortisol. More cortisol over a long periods of time can equal poor physical health.

From lowering blood pressure to improving immune function, journaling is like a multi-vitamin for your overall well-being. So next time stress is getting on top of you, try reaching for your journal!

5. Improves Your Outlook And Mindset.

Have you ever sat down with your best friend and talked abut life or your stresses, then noticed after you feel a lot more positive and optimistic. Think of your Journal as your new best friend. Transforming your thoughts from a jumble of worries into written words can be incredibly powerful. It’s like decluttering your mind! This simple act of self-expression helps you gain perspective, focus on the positives, and cultivate a more optimistic outlook on life.

6. Helps to process Trauma or Crisis Situations.

I’m sure we have all had times of crisis or intense stress. Journaling can provide a safe and non-judgemental place to process your complex emotions and experiences. It provides a private space to unpack your thoughts and feelings, allowing you to understand and heal at your own pace. Remember, your journal doesn’t judge; it listens. That’s what makes it a powerful tool in healing and reclaiming your strength.

How to Start Journaling Tips

Setting Up Your Journaling Practice Choosing the right method of journaling is your first step. Pick something that feels inviting and special to you. I personally love the feeling of pen to paper. But I know that doesn’t resonate or work for everyone! Most important thing I want you to take away from reading this article is the understanding that journaling can be unique to you! Don’t let the format or process seem too big and stop you from getting started. You can type it into a word document, use an app on your phone or use voice recorder or a combination. It has to work for you and feel like something you will keep coming back to.

Benefits of Journaling

Find a comfortable spot where you can write freely and without interruptions (even if that means in the car if home is too busy). Make it that you are in your favourite space in your house, with things you love. For me it’s in my favourite chair with my cushion and blanket, my singing bowl, salt lamp and crystals if I feel drawn to particular ones for that day or for the topic I’m writing on. Sometimes I also use ceremonial cacao to help to allow the stress of the day to melt away go deeper and open myself up to spiritual messages.

Consistency is crucial – even a few minutes each day can spark significant changes. This can be a few minutes of what’s called ‘stream of consciousness’ writing or brain dumping as I like to call it. This is where you write whatever comes to mind, it doesn’t even need to make sense. Or its prompted questions that help guide you through particular issues or ideas (see the prompts below to get you started).

How to Make it a Habit

Tips to keep up the habit –

  • Journal at the same time every day or on the same day every week.
  • Set a reminder alarm
  • Habit stack but adding journaling to a routine you already do – keep your journal near the coffee maker to remind you in the morning, keep it on the couch so you do it instead of watching TV.
  • Start with only 10 or 15minutes a day
  • Plan a selfcare reward after; like a walk, a shower, time relaxing watching TV.
  • Create a beautiful and soothing routine to make it a pleasant experience.
Journal Prompts

16 Prompts to get you started

So how do you start journaling if you don’t know what to write? I know this is a common hurdle. Journaling prompts are fantastic tools to get your thoughts flowing.

Here are 16 prompts designed to start you on your journaling journey in self-discovery and introspection. Just start by picking one and go from there:

  1. What am I most grateful for today?
  2. Which values are most important to me, and how am I honouring them?
  3. What are the biggest lessons I’ve learned this year?
  4. When did I feel truly happy in the last week?
  5. What fears are holding me back from my dreams?
  6. How do I define success, and am I on the path toward it?
  7. What are my unique strengths, and how can I use them more?
  8. What advice would I give to my younger self?
  9. What does my ideal day look like?
  10. How do I practice self-care, and how can I improve it?
  11. What am I afraid of, and why?
  12. Which relationships in my life are most significant, and why?
  13. What is my personal definition of happiness?
  14. Where do I see myself in five years?
  15. What am I passionate about, and how do I express it?
  16. What obstacles have I overcome, and what have they taught me?

If you like these and want more I am currently releasing daily journal prompt pins on Pinterest you can save and come back to when you are ready. These prompts cover a range of topics within Mind Spirit Life areas of Psychology, Spirituality and Lifestyles.

Journal Prompts

Integrating Journaling with Other Self-Improvement Practices

Journaling beautifully complements other self-improvement and self-care activities. Whether it’s:

  • Reflecting post-meditation
  • Writing after a workout or yoga
  • Dream journaling if you’re having nightmares
  • Gratitude journaling when you need a pick me up after a bad day
  • Worry journaling at the end of the day to clean your mind before sleep

Integrating journaling into your routine can enhance your overall journey of growth.

“Journaling is a tool to put our experiences, thoughts, beliefs, and desires into language, and in doing so it helps us understand and grow and make sense of them,”

– Joshua Smyth (Professor of biobehavioural health and medicine – Penn State University).

Final Thoughts on How to Start Journaling

Starting a journaling practice is like opening a door to self-awareness and personal transformation. Remember, there’s no right or wrong way to journal – it’s all about what resonates with you. So, don’t overthink it, pick up that pen or chosen medium, and let your inner voice flow.

Need More

I’m excited to hear about your journaling journey! Have you had any eye-opening moments? Still feeling stuck drop, a comment on other areas you’d like to see covered or ask me any questions and I’ll get back to you. Share your stories, insights or questions in the comments or find me on Instagram @mindspiritlifecoach. And for more tips on personal growth and self-discovery, stay tuned to Mind Spirit Life.

Happy journaling!

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Energy Protection

How to Protect Your Energy: 11 Powerful Ways for your Mind Spirit and Life

Katelyn

Protecting your energy is essential for maintaining a balanced and fulfilling life. In this blog, we will explore 11 powerful methods for how to protect your energy, and promote well-being for your mind, spirit, and everyday life.

Energy protection goes beyond physical vitality; it also encompasses nurturing your mental and spiritual well-being. By implementing these strategies, you can create a sense of balance, retain a sense of self and maintain energy for yourself.

From setting healthy boundaries to visualisation and time management skills, these methods empower you to prioritize self-care and align with your true self and your intuition. This enables you to make decisions based on what truly matters to you. Energy protection is particularly important for highly sensitive individuals, empaths, and introverts.

Let’s dive in and explore these powerful methods together!

What is Energy Protection?

Energy protection involves safeguarding and preserving our personal energy, including our mental and spiritual well-being. It creates balance, harmony, and overall well-being.

Your energy is more than just how you feel through the day and whether you have enough energy to exercise or go out. In some cultures, it is also referred to as Qi, Vitality, Kundalini and Prana. It encompasses our emotions, our thoughts and even our soul. It is important to protect this energy to ensure what we think, and feel is ours alone.

Why is it Important to Protect Your Energy?

Have you ever had the experience of making a decision that brings you happiness or excitement, and it just feels right?! But then, when you talk to other people about it, their opinions dampen your excitement.

Alternatively, have you ever noticed your mood changing when you’re around someone? It could be someone in a really bad mood, being negative, brings you down or someone extremely happy and laughing, which lifts your mood.

Sound familiar? That’s where energy protection comes in.

Protecting our energy is crucial for several reasons:

  1. To helps us maintain our overall well-being. When our energy is drained or depleted, we may experience fatigue, stress, and a lack of motivation.
  2. Protecting our energy helps us establish boundaries and prevent others from draining our energy or taking advantage of us.
  3. Stay aligned with our true selves and our goals. When our energy is scattered or influenced by external factors, it becomes challenging to focus on what truly matters to us. By protecting our energy, we can stay connected to our purpose and pursue a fulfilling life.
Energy Protection

11 Powerful Methods to Protect Your Energy

Start implementing these energy protection methods today and experience the positive impact they can have on your overall well-being. Your energy is precious, so cherish it and let it guide you towards a happier, healthier, and more fulfilled life.

Protecting Your Mental Energy: 4 Powerful Strategies

Protecting your mental energy is crucial for maintaining a healthy and balanced life. When we prioritize our mental well-being, we can experience increased clarity, focus, and overall happiness. Here are four powerful strategies to help you protect your mental energy:

1. Set Healthy Boundaries

Learn to say no to activities, commitments, or people that drain your energy. Establishing clear boundaries allows you to prioritize self-care and protect your mental well-being. When you are clear on your boundaries it is easier to know when others energy is impacting yours.

2. Practice Gratitude

Practicing gratitude is a powerful way to protect your mental energy. Take time each day to acknowledge and appreciate the blessings in your life. By shifting your focus to the positive aspects of life, you can cultivate a mindset of gratitude and enhance your mental well-being.

3. Self-Compassion

Nurture your mental energy by practicing self-compassion and positive self-talk. Be kind and gentle with yourself, avoiding self-criticism and negative thoughts. Treat yourself with the same love and compassion you would extend to a dear friend. By practicing self-compassion, you can preserve your mental energy and promote a healthy mindset.

4. Stress Management

Managing stress is vital for protecting your mental energy. Identify healthy coping mechanisms that work for you, such as exercise, meditation, or engaging in hobbies. By effectively managing stress, you can prevent it from draining your mental energy and maintain a sense of balance in your life.

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4 Magical Strategies for Spiritual Energy Protection

When it comes to protecting your energy, it’s important to not only focus on your mental well-being but also your spiritual well-being. Here are four powerful strategies for spiritual energy protection:

5. Energy Cleansing Rituals

Energy cleansing rituals are practices that help remove any negative or stagnant energy from your space and aura. These rituals can include smudging with sage or other herbs and incense, drawing protection sigils or performing a salt bath. By regularly cleansing your energy, you can create a more positive and harmonious environment for yourself.

6. Meditation/Visualization

Meditation and visualization are powerful tools for protecting your spiritual energy (and my favourite!!). Taking time to quiet your mind and connect with your inner self can help you release any negative energy and restore balance. One technique I personally use everyday is visualizing. Visualize a protective shield or light surrounding you helps ward off any negative influences or energies.

7. Chakra Balancing

Chakras are energy centres within the body and balancing them is essential for protecting your spiritual energy. There are various techniques for balancing chakras, such as meditation, energy healing, or using specific crystals associated with each chakra. By keeping your chakras balanced, you can maintain a healthy flow of energy throughout your body and promote overall well-being.

8. Crystal Healing

Crystals have unique energetic properties that can help enhance and protect your energy. You can choose crystals that resonate with you and carry them with you or place them in your environment. Some crystals known for their protective properties include black tourmaline, amethyst, and selenite. By harnessing the energy of crystals, you can create a shield of protection around you.

3 Practical Strategies for Everyday Energy Protection

How to Protect Your Energy

In our fast-paced and hectic lives, it’s important to prioritize our energy and protect it from unnecessary drains. Here are three practical strategies for everyday energy protection:

9. Adequate Sleep

Getting enough sleep is crucial for maintaining optimal energy levels. When we are well-rested, we have more mental clarity, focus, and overall well-being. Aim for 7-9 hours of quality sleep, however, I believe that its best to try to sleep with your body’s natural rhythms as much as possible. Create a relaxing bedtime ritual, avoid stimulating activities before bed, and ensure your sleep environment is comfortable and conducive to restful sleep.

10. Digital Detox

In today’s digital age, we are constantly bombarded with notifications, emails, and social media updates, which can be overwhelming and draining. Taking regular breaks from technology can help protect and recharge your energy. Set aside designated periods of time each day, such as an hour before bed or a specific day of the week, to disconnect from your devices. Use this time to engage in activities that bring you joy, such as reading, spending time in nature, or practicing a hobby.

11. Managing Your Time and Energy

Prioritize tasks and activities that align with your values and goals. Learn to delegate or eliminate tasks that drain your energy unnecessarily. Efficient time management helps ensure that your energy is directed towards what truly matters.

Conclusion

Protecting your energy is essential for maintaining a balanced sense of yourself and a connection to your intuition. By implementing these powerful methods for your mind, spirit, and life, you can cultivate a strong foundation of energy protection. Remember to prioritize your well-being, set boundaries, and engage in practices that nourish and uplift your energy. By doing so, you will experience increased vitality, clarity, and a deeper connection to yourself and the world around you.

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Resources:

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Spiritual Psychology

Introduction to Spiritual Psychology: A Holistic Approach to Well-Being

Katelyn
Spiritual Psychology

In a world where stress, anxiety and the pursuit of happiness are prevalent, finding balance and purpose can feel impossible. Some people turn to traditional psychology, while others find refuge in spirituality. But why should we choose one or the other? Spiritual Psychology creates a balanced space where the two worlds collide, into an impactful and meaningful journey of self-discovery and holistic well-being.

In this blog, I will give you an introduction to Spiritual Psychology, otherwise known as Transpersonal Psychology. We will delve into the interconnectedness of mind, body and spirit and explore the practical applications to help improve your life.

At Mind Spirit Life it my mission to explore this topic and help make it easy to apply to your life. So, follow along to discover how Spiritual Psychology can help you!

e fascinating world of Psychology back to its original definition. This area is also sometimes called Transpersonal Psychology. Trans meaning to ‘go beyond’ therefore, meaning to go beyond the personal.

What is Spiritual Psychology?

Psychology’s original definition was in fact the Study of the Soul. Psychology comes from the root words Psyche meaning “breath, spirit, soul” and Logia meaning “study of”. Spiritual Psychology brings the fascinating world of Psychology back to its original definition. This area is also sometimes called Transpersonal Psychology. Trans meaning to ‘go beyond’ therefore, meaning to go beyond the personal.

The reason psychology was inspired onto the planet was because humanity forgot why it was here

Dr Ron Hulnick

Spiritual Psychology explores spiritual and transcendental aspects of human experience, emphasizing integration of mind, body and spirit. Which differs from traditional psychology, which mainly focuses on the mind and behaviour.

Principles of Spiritual Psychology

Transpersonal Psychology
  • We are Spiritual Beings having a Human Experience. We are designed to use our human experiences to Awaken spiritually.
  • Unresolved issues is anything that disturbs the peace. These disturbances are not bad things they are lessons to learn from.
  • Healing unresolved issues and traumas is spiritual work towards Awakening.
  • Healing is loving the places inside that hurt.1

4 Main Areas of Spiritual Psychology

Spiritual psychology is like the ultimate life hack! It’s all about embracing the fact that our body, mind, and soul are all working together to make us truly feel alive. Instead of just seeing ourselves as physical beings, it’s all about tapping into our inner essence and nurturing our spiritual selves.

Mind Spirit Life is about work toward educating and integrating these teachings with a focus on 4 main areas:

Self-Discovery

Finding and feeling confident in your identity. It’s hard sometimes to know yourself, truly, and to feel safe to stand in your identity when there is family, friends, work, social media, and general media telling us who we should be and what we should like and want. Mind Spirit Life is explores areas of identity to provide clarity, self-awareness and the confidence to stand in your own identity.

Finding Purpose and Meaning

Spiritual Psychology can help you uncover your true purpose in life and be happy with however that looks. Discovering purpose and meaning in your life gives a sense of direction, something to work towards and something to focus on which can help with low mood and anxieties.

Holistic Well-being

      Holistic wellbeing includes the mind body and spirit in how you are feeling and interacting in the world. If one of these centres are off its not surprising if multiple areas are becoming a struggle. By taking a holistic approach to well-being allows for a broader range of strategies and management options. From Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to Yoga to Chakra Balancing.

Increased Resilience

In today’s world where it can seem that there are tragic stories and saddening news everywhere we turn it is important to continually increase our resilience. Resilience is the capacity to recover quickly from difficulties, therefore, this is an incredibly important area to focus on nowadays especially.

The Intersection of Mind, Body and Spirit

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Something being discussed more and more recently is the Mind-Body Connection. The mind-body connection is the relationship between thoughts, beliefs and emotions and your physical body. It includes the nervous system, endocrine system and the immune system. It reflects that our mental state affects our physical well-being and vice versa. There is growing evidence to reflect that this is accurate and that emotions such as stress, depression and anxiety can impact our physical body over time, increasing our risk of disease and illness.

Spiritual health also needs to be considered in this connection for a truly holistic perspective on well-being. Spiritual health includes the interaction between the mind-body and how connected we feel on a spiritual level. The connections can be connection to Universe, Source, God (which ever name fits best for you), it can also mean the connections with have with friends, family and community. There is also a lot of evidence to show the importance of the connections in our life keeping us strong in tough times which in turn reflects healthy bodies.

Application of Spiritual Psychology

Some of the ways we can integrate Spiritual Psychology Principles into our every day life will be explored in further blogs, digital products, future courses or one to one coaching services.

Some upcoming topics include caring for Mind, Body and Spirit through;

  • Breathwork
  • Meditation
  • Mindfulness
  • Self-compassion
  • Mindful movement
  • Self-Discovery
  • Purpose Finding
  • Stress and Anxiety Management

Spiritual psychology: navigating the depths of the soul for transformative self-awareness.

Mind Spirit Life: Your Journey to Holistic Well-being and a Fulfilling Life

Mind Spirit Life is designed to assist individuals on their path to holistic well-being and a more spiritually-attuned life. My mission is to offer insight, experiences, and techniques to guide you on your journey. All of the advice, tips, and strategies I discuss are rooted in personal experiences, life lessons, and have been tried and tested by me.

My blogs, digital products, courses, and personal coaching all focus on spiritual psychology to help you to discover your true identity and purpose in life. We are dedicated to helping you gain the confidence to thrive, free from fear and judgement. Whether you seek to deepen your meditation practice, learn new mindfulness techniques or delve into your spirituality, we have something for everyone.

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Together, let’s embark on a journey of holistic wellbeing and discover its amazing benefits.

Thank you for considering Mind Spirit Life as a part of your journey towards holistic wellbeing and spiritual living. I am excited to be a part of your journey and look forward to supporting you every step of the way.

Resources

  1. Hulnick R & Hulnick M, Spiritual Psychology: The Long-Awaited Convergence | University Of Santa Monica, Megazen Vol.7 ↩︎

2. Spiritual Psychology: Why Meditation Isn’t Enough! ? LonerWolf

3. Exploring the Intersection of Spiritualism and Psychology – Meaningful Moon